My mom had a taste of what it is like with Ben this past week when she visited. I asked her to watch Ben while he was in the bathtub. She sat not four feet from him, playing a game of Trouble with Ben's younger brother, Logan. Without anyone hearing him, Ben got out of the tub and was next to Grandma before she even realized it. Yes, he is that quick, agile and quiet. At least she knows I am not making up the stories I share with her.
If you are a parent or caregiver of a child with special needs, be sure to investigate all options for services. Never assume you do not qualify. You may feel up to the task now as caregiver, but things change - situations get more difficult. Get on those lists now because it could take years for your number to be called. Follow-up with your case managers, stay in touch with the agencies who may provide services and make sure they know who you are. And as always, be sure to send a photo of your sweet baby for them to keep in their file!