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Kids Who Volunteer


On Saturday, Kidz That Care, a nonprofit organization in Charlotte, visited Ben's Easterseals UCP group home to "Pack the Pantry" with groceries and beautify the front porch with flowers. Ben joined the group outside and watched them plant poinsettias, sweep leaves and wipe down tables. 

I wasn't sure how engaged Ben was in the activity but when I tried to take him for a walk, he made it clear he wanted to stay and observe. He hugged the one adult with the group (not the photo above). 

When the group was leaving, Kidz That Care asked to take a photo with Ben. I noticed how Liam, one of the teen volunteers, kneeled next to Ben rather than stand behind him. Usually people not comfortable around Ben are hesitant to get close. I was impressed with Liam's willingness to bend down and be at his level.

Then Ben leaned in for a hug and held on to Liam for several minutes. Ben's hands were tight around Liam's neck and he kept his head on Liam's shoulder. It was a remarkable moment.

Kidz That Care planted several poinsettias in a strip of dirt in front of the porch. 

Ben gave all the volunteers fist bumps or high fives when they first arrived.


Kidz That Care also brought groceries to "Pack the Pantry" at the group home.


Group photo turned into a hug fest.

I was introduced to Kidz That Care a few years ago when I was assigned a story to write about the organization. The story is here.

I am truly thankful Kidz That Care is interested in working with Ben's group home. More importantly, the friendships formed will last a lifetime – Ben made that point clear today.




 

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