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Throwback Thursday: It's tough being a kid

This first posted in 2012. I added a few new images.

Some things – eating hotdogs and ice cream and loving the water – never change.





We visited Ryan's Dad this past weekend. He lives at Lake Lure (most known as the set of "Dirty Dancing"). Ben had a great time in the water and especially on the inflatable boat where his brothers did all the rowing. After eating almost two hot dogs, homemade ice cream and chips, he found his spot on the pontoon boat and dozed.

Logan loves the look Ben gives him - the look of love. It is easily seen here. Logan tells everyone that Ben loves him best, and then points to me and says, "even more than he loves you." I cannot argue - I don't get that look of adoration.


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