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Choosing to Dance

Let's dance, put on your red shoes and dance the blues...*

Ben's school is having a dance for 3rd-5th graders this afternoon. Rather than make the decision for him to attend, we posed the question and then gave him the choice on his NOVA Chat. The overwhelming response, 100% of the time, was YES. His Occupational Therapist asked the question a few different ways to be sure his answer was consistent. It was every time.

Ben's wonderful new community worker is attending the dance with him. Luckily, she is very excited to go and with her outgoing personality, Ben will have his dance card filled.

*Words are from David Bowie's Let's Dance, 1983


  1. How did it go? When are we going to see the pictures? :D I am glad he got to go! That pad is definitely helping a lot.


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