eSpecially Ben

Ben attended Rainbow Express Camp again this year. Although I was not the person bringing him to camp, I was told that he was banging on the glass to get out of the car once he saw where he was going. One of Ben's mighty abilities is his memory. We do not go anywhere near this church during the year, but every year, without exception, he is clamoring to get in there. Matthews United Methodist Church's youth program coordinated the entire week. The teens in the program served as the camp counselors, and they worked their tails off all week making it Ben's favorite place to be. If Ben looks a little tired, he was. In addition to participating in a fun-filled day of camp from 9am-4pm, he had a summer cold too. When he was asked in the morning if he wanted to go to camp, he crawled to the door to get to the car. Ben's counselor, Tanner, sent photos to me during the week. I was actually away visiting family and it was so good to see Ben having a good time. It i

Since March, we have had a revolving door of staff working with Ben. Rather than discuss the gory details of each case, I decided to pass on what I learned from the experience. Having staff in our home is both a blessing and a curse. It is wonderful to have someone to help with Ben's personal care and independent skill building. It gives me a break and also helps Ben work on skills I may not have the time to do or are not skilled at teaching. However, it also means that there is a loss of privacy within our home. Feeling comfortable with the people who work with Ben is imperative to me. His safety is my first priority. It is not only what a staff person may or may not do, but it is the gut feeling I get when it does not feel right. I may not be able to put my finger on the problem, but that should not discount my feelings. These are a few things I have learned, and I would love for others to share any tips or ideas they have picked up through their own experiences. Trust yo

Today, Love INC coordinated the building of a much needed ramp on our home. Elevation Church volunteers followed the lead of Steve Parrot, a carpenter from Eastern Hills Baptist Church  and within 3 hours completed the entire structure. Our ramp was one of 600 service projects during Love Week , an annual event for Elevation Church. Steve cannot give an exact count, but this ramp probably put him over the 200 mark for ramps built with his help. Words cannot express our gratitude. Although complete strangers came out to help us, they left as friends. There were promises of a BBQ/Stain the Ramp/Fall Get Together in September...I am already planning the date!