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Leave it to Kim, Ben's longtime caregiver and family friend, to catch Ben doing the chair trick and videotape it. It is not for the faint of heart, especially mothers or grandmothers. The camera jumps when it looks like Kim might have to prevent a spill. After witnessing this climb, Kim's recommendation was to leave the tray off the chair so that Ben could get in it properly without risking life and limb. Sounds like a good idea to me.

Early one morning, I found Ben sitting on top of the tray to his Rifton Hi-Lo Activity chair. Everyone was sleeping so there were no witnesses to this triumphant climb. Most of us were dumbfounded by this accomplishment. Often, I wish we had a "Benny Cam" to catch Ben's crazy antics and ninja-like moves on video. A person close to Ben was sure Ryan was playing a practical joke, and put Ben up there for me to find. I assured this person that my snoring husband was just as surprised as me. If not for my own ninja like reflexes with the camera, no one would have believed this story. My being believed superseded my worry for Ben falling. After some investigation, it became obvious that Ben had searched the fridge for food, left unwanted zucchini bread on the floor and when he did not find what he wanted, decided to wait in the dining room for someone to bring food. Ben has waited in the dining room numerous times, but always in a regular chair. He has been able to get

Started the Day with a Birthday Donut. Train ride to Steak & Shake. Milkshakes all around. To he** with dairy free , it's my birthday! Perhaps wearing the hat is not one of the favorite things. Sean entertained us with pole dancing. Ended the day swimming with friends and family. If Ben looked a little dazed and confused, this birthday celebration was also day seven of his sleepless week.